The Me First Retreat
A Therapeutic Nervous System Reset for Women Who Carry a Lot
📍 Rainforest & Ocean | Near Newcastle Airport | 1 hour north of Newcastle
Where your body settles, love falls back into order,
and life becomes easier to carry.
THIS IS NOT YOUR TYPICAL WELLNESS RETREAT
This is a therapeutic, multi-layered retreat working emotionally, physically, energetically, and relationally to bring your system back into alignment.
You will be guided.
You will be held.
You will not be managing yourself.
 This Is a Therapeutic Retreat, Not a “Feel Good” Getaway
The ME FIRST Retreat is grounded in:
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nervous system regulation
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somatic therapy
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hypnotherapy
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inner child and parts work
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family systems & energetic order
We work from the inside out.
This means:
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your body softens before your mind understands
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emotional relief arrives without forcing insight
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change integrates instead of wearing off on Monday
This is why women leave steadier and fulfilled.Â
THE TRANSFORMATION
By the end of the weekend, women commonly experience:
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a settled, quieter body
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less emotional reactivity at home
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clearer boundaries without guilt
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restored capacity to give without depletion
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a felt sense of “I’m back inside myself”
This is about restoring order so your system can function the way it’s meant to and all your relationship THRIVE!
LOOSE SCHEDULE
& EVERYTHING IS AN INVITATION
Friday
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Arrival & orientation
- A private session with Lucy (your host). To get you settled and to be made aware of any sensitivities or needs throughout the weekend.
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Grounding and nervous system settling
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Opening circle: arriving back in your body. Hypnojourney + Reiki
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Dinner + early rest
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Saturday
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Sunrise meditation on the beach
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Dream work over breakfast
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Family Constellations group workÂ
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Afternoon integration & creative expression
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Evening connection, softness, laughter
- Yin Yoga before bed.Â
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Sunday
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Slow self-led morning
- Body based celebration
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Special International Women's Day Brunch in the garden
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Joy & reflection
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Closing ritual & re-entry
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A steady and supportive pace
You’ll be nourished in the most practical sense too.
Throughout the retreat you’ll enjoy:
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delicious, wholesome, nutrient-dense meals. Dietary requirements catered for.Â
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simple, communal dining that feels connecting, not overwhelming.
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optional massage treatments if you choose (not included in ticket price)
- Infrared Sauna if you wish (not included in ticket price)
Accommodation is spacious and considered:
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choose your own private room, or
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share a large room with two other guests, with plenty of space and privacy
Everything about the container is designed to help your system feel:
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safe
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unhurried
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supported
So you can rest, integrate, and receive without needing to manage or perform.
There is Depth & there is Play
Part of restoring balance is letting joy, creativity, and play come back online.
You’ll be gently invited into:
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simple art and expression
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curiosity instead of pressure
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pleasure without productivity
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moments where your nervous system remembers safety
This is how aliveness returns.
Permission to express all of you.
Optional Add-Ons for Deeper Nervous System Relief
You may choose to book:
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💆‍♀️ Massage
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$160 (1 hour)
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$220 (1.5 hours)
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🔥 Infrared Sauna
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$55 for two people
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These are optional and booked separately.
Nature That Does the Work With Us
The retreat is held where rainforest meets the ocean,
just a 500-metre walk to the beach,
and conveniently located near Newcastle Airport. We will happily come and collect you from the airport if required.Â
Close enough to feel easy.
Far enough to let your system truly exhale.
This retreat is for women who:
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are capable, loving, and responsible
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feel emotionally stretched thin
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are ready to stop living on the edges of themselves
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want real, embodied change, not another insight
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Hi, I’m Lucy
I’ve spent nearly two decades working therapeutically with women, families, and nervous systems.
I know what it means to carry a lot and what it takes to restore order so life becomes livable again.
I work slowly, precisely, and with deep respect for the nervous system.
Women often tell me they feel:
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safe without explanation
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calmer without trying
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changed in ways that quietly reshape their lives
That’s the work I’ll be holding here.
If something in you is responding to this,
it’s because your system is ready for something different.
I’d be honoured to hold you in this work.
If you would prefer to have a phone chat with me before making this decision. Please book a free call in here:Â Services | Lucy Ellis
“Lucy is like a giant exhale in my body. I didn’t realise how much I was holding until I worked with her.”
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“She is so good at what she does. I felt safe, steady, and completely myself in her space.”
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“Best gift I’ve ever given myself. The way I show up at home and in my life is genuinely different now.”
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The Me First Retreat
Private Room - SOLD OUT!
$1111
This is Early Bird price. This price will increase 6th February 2026
Shared Room
$999
This is Early Bird price. This price will increase 6th February 2026
SECURE MY SPOTEARLY BIRD ends 6th February 2026!
Private Room price after EARLY BIRD is: $1350
Shared Room after Early Bird is: $1250
If Spending This Money Feels Hard, That Makes Sense
Most women coming to this retreat are used to:
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putting everyone else first
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justifying rest
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delaying their own needs
This retreat isn’t about knowing you matter.
It’s about embodying it.
When you check in with your body…
does this feel expansive, relieving, or grounding?
If yes, that’s your answer.